ONLINE THERAPY FOR MEN
Being Intimate Without Blockage
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Would you like to be able to have an erection whenever you want?
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Do you feel insecure that you're not always able to achieve it? Would you like to know why this is happening and find practical tips to overcome it, and feel more confident?
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Do you get stuck in your head about it all?
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And do you wish you could instead just show her how much you like her?
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Do you feel that when pressure is on, it's even less successful?
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Would you like to be able to give your girlfriend/wife what she craves?
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So, you don't have to see that disappointment on her face anymore?
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Can you get aroused, but you lose your erection after a while?
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Or do you suffer from other problems, such as difficulty reaching orgasm?
Maybe you catch yourself thinking things like, "I hope it works this time. Keep it hard, come on!"
And when it doesn't work, you think about it all day long.
"See, you can't do it. You are a failure.”
And you start thinking negatively about yourself:
"There are plenty of other boys/men, I can't even have sex with her."
"I have to do it right for her."
You're not alone!
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Many men struggle with erectile dysfunction, inability to climax during penetration, or premature climaxing. About 50% of men over 50 experience difficulty maintaining or achieving an erection, but it's also becoming increasingly common at a young age due to excessive porn use, which in turn impacts performance pressure and the experience of "normal intimate sexuality."
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Moreover, erectile dysfunction can also lead to orgasm problems, for example, when someone can't maintain an erection long enough. It's important to know that occasionally losing an erection or not being able to climax is perfectly normal. Every man experiences this at some point, for example, when he's tired or has consumed alcohol.
However, my practical experience as a sexologist shows that the vast majority of erectile problems stem from performance anxiety, especially in younger men.
If an erection isn't achieved once, the focus becomes entirely on achieving it the next time. So much pressure is placed on "having to perform" that it doesn't work, which further increases the anxiety about the next time. This is how you can develop performance anxiety. And unconsciously, this anxiety is triggered every time the first opportunity for sex arises.
DO YOU RECOGNIZE YOURSELF IN THIS?
Despite its prevalence, there's still a significant taboo, especially among men, against discussing and seeking help for erectile dysfunction and other sexual problems. And by seeking help, you can resolve the problems much faster.
Imagine if you could give your partner what you desire. What would it feel like to get and keep an erection, and feel completely empowered and confident when it comes to sex?
This can be a reality for you too. It involves not only discussing your problem with a professional, but also addressing it at the level of your thoughts and negative beliefs, along with tools and specific strategies that will help you feel like the "King of Sex."
If erectile problems persist for a long time or are bothering you significantly, it's wise to seek professional help.
This is how I'll help you
4-month program
In the week you don't have a Zoom call, you'll receive:
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Exercises to do with your partner, or on your own, depending on your needs.
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Body-oriented exercises to transform your "sexual stress" into connection and freedom — so you can regain confidence between the sheets.
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Educational videos (for example, about the female anatomy and the different pleasure points, and where and how you can explore them together with your partner).
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Audio recordings to break automatic unconscious patterns, creating space for your automatic brain to feel safe and regain self-confidence.
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Writing exercises to discover deeper insights about yourself and your patterns and to reframe them, helping you reconnect with your self-confidence and sense of freedom.
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24/7 support via WhatsApp and email, so you can feel supported and connected between sessions, ask questions, or share breakthroughs. Please keep voice recordings under two minutes to ensure they remain effective and truly answer your questions.
My message to other men who are hesitant or procrastinating: don't underestimate what therapy can do for you. The progress you can make in a relatively short time is enormous. Yes, it's an investment, but one that will completely restore your self-confidence, your relationship, and your happiness.
- Dennis -
WHAT WILL YOU GET
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During the Zoom sessions, you will completely transform your problem through talking, sexual freedom hypnotherapy, positive psychology, voice dialogue, and neo-tantra, to name a few of the techniques Marianne works with.
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The great thing about these sessions is that you'll not only be working on breaking through erectile dysfunction but will also boost your self-confidence.
You'll also notice that this feeling of self-confidence and being less in your head will spread to other areas of your life.
All of this will bring you immense peace and a sense of joy in life, because you'll now feel and experience at a deep level that you are good enough.
Your investment:
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5 monthly payments of €780 each or a one-time payment of €3600
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No waiting list, immediate help
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Conversation via secure video calling
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Often, improvement is visible within the first few sessions
YOU TOO CAN START A HAPPY INTIMATE LOVE LIFE JUST LIKE THESE MAN
I started therapy with Marianne because I was experiencing erectile dysfunction. This not only caused a lot of tension in my relationship but also significantly damaged my self-esteem. I had little self-confidence left, both in everyday life and in the bedroom, and felt very insecure about it.
My biggest breakthrough came immediately after the first session and the first hypnosis session. I felt much better right away. That month, I immediately saw the results of those first sessions: the erectile dysfunction was gone, and the tension in our relationship immediately diminished. I really didn't expect things to get better so quickly. In subsequent sessions, this feeling only became more deeply ingrained, leading to even greater self-confidence and a better self-image.
What's changed for me since I started this therapy is truly fantastic. In just a few months, I've completely regained my confidence in bed. I'm no longer afraid to be sexually active with my girlfriend. I feel comfortable in my own skin again, and that has had a huge positive impact on my relationship.
How I feel now: I now feel especially at ease and confident. The constant pressure and anxiety I used to feel are gone.
A message for other men: To other men in a similar situation who might be putting off taking the plunge, I want to say: it's incredible how much progress you can make in such a short time. I feel great now. It might be an investment, but it's more than worth it. You'll get your happiness and self-confidence in return!
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About Marianne
Her sessions take place online, which allows her to work with women and men from all over the world.
Not only is she a world-renowned sex therapist, but also a no. 1 bestselling author, and a mom of a boy.
Marianne van Katwijk, M.Sc. is a highly trained and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Therapist and is one of the top 1% of holistic and Integrated Sexuality Coaches in the world.
She obtained her Master degree in Social Psychology, specializing in Positive Psychology and Solution Based Coaching. She is a graduate of the Tantric School of Integrated Sexuality and is a certified as a Hypnotherapist. She is the only Sexual Freedom Hypnotist in the Netherlands.
Marianne works with women to help them transform their sexual pain, sexual shutdown, self-doubt, and insecurities. So that they can enjoy intimacy and experience their natural feminine blueprint of pleasure and turn-on.
She also works with men to help them overcome intimate and sexual issues such as ED (Erectile Disfunction), PED (Porn-induced Erectile Disfunction), Anejaculation (not being able to ejaculate during intercourse), and PE (Premature Ejaculation).
Consequences for your relationship
Erectile problems can have a profound and disruptive impact on your self-confidence and your relationship.
Many men experience intense shame and develop guilt towards their partners. The fear of another failure is constantly lurking and can lead to a vicious cycle: the greater the fear, the stronger the tendency to avoid sex.
This increases the feeling that you are failing your partner, which can be emotionally draining. When erectile dysfunction isn't discussed openly within a relationship, misunderstandings quickly arise.
Your partner may feel rejected, insecure, or unwanted, leading to frustration, disappointment, and emotional distance. The connection between you weakens, and intimacy diminishes.
Ultimately, this can lead to avoiding not only sex, but any form of intimacy that could potentially lead to sex, simply to escape the feeling of failure.
This constant avoidance can severely strain the relationship and even lead to alienation, loneliness within the relationship, or even its complete breakup—with potentially catastrophic consequences for your future together.
YOU TOO CAN START A HAPPY INTIMATE LOVE LIFE JUST LIKE THESE MAN
I came to Marianne at a time when my erectile problems were increasingly affecting my life. Not just in the bedroom, but also outside of it. My self-confidence was completely gone, and tensions arose within my relationship that I found difficult to explain or discuss. I felt insecure, a failure in my own eyes, and even began to avoid intimacy.
What really surprised me was how quickly I noticed a change. After the first session, I felt a clear shift. Peace returned, the pressure disappeared, and my body responded as it should again. Within a short time, I noticed that the erectile problems decreased and my confidence—both in myself and in my relationship—began to grow again.
In the sessions that followed, this feeling became increasingly entrenched. I regained my self-esteem and dared to be fully present during intimacy, without fear or tension. This not only improved my sex life but also deepened my connection with my partner. The relaxation and pleasure are back, and that feels priceless.
How do I feel now? Calm, confident, and free. The constant stress and pressure to perform that used to overshadow everything are gone. I feel like myself again.
My message to other men who are hesitant or procrastinating: don't underestimate what therapy can do for you. The progress you can make in a relatively short time is enormous. Yes, it's an investment, but one that will completely restore your self-confidence, your relationship, and your happiness.
- Dennis -
